Sunday, April 22, 2007

The rants of a blank whiteboard!

Well I really just felt like ranting today and I figured that this was pretty safe cause I am sure not many people actually stop by here very often. I am having a hard time understanding why people who date seem to drop off the face of the earth to their friends all the time? It is even one of those things that you take about when you are single and they say it will never happen to them but low and behold it does not take long before it does happen. I mean they are good with it as long as the person they are dating is around. Do you know how hard it is to detach that friend from the person that they like for even 5 min to have a conversation? I know that you all know what I am talking about in one way or another. I just hate it and would really love to be able to understand why it happens all the time. It is not something that will go away ever either I don't think. They get married and there will still not be time. I guess that I need to create a grave stone for when this happens and just start a grave yard of people who this happens to in my life. I guess that I also just need to sit back and let it bother me to much. Oh so much for the rant I am off to watch the game.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Worry RJ.

S.

Anonymous said...

Woops...that "W" was supposed to be an "S" and make it sorry.

Anonymous said...

So true - I agree completely. It seems like they are happy to say "oh, I can't believe jane is so into her boyfriend right now. i used to talk to her all the time, but now it's only like once a month... if i'm lucky. i'll never be like that!"
and then a month later, look who has fallen off the face! is it truly impossible to have enough time - do these significant others really deserve every blinking moment? do we - as the true and long standing friends, really deserve this treatment?
RJ - you've made me want to rant too!
Brie

Anonymous said...

looking back when I was dating my ex. I used to spend almost every moment with him and very little with my close friends that were at my birthday like Melissa, Faye, Jeff, even church friends that I would see aat church. I hope that when God brings my future husband I will not forget or leave behind those people who were there before the relationship. In my oponion its a matter or balance. I know when I look back on my relationship I wish I would have given more time to certain few friends.